The post from earlier this week was all about my excitement about my new story idea. Little did I realize what kind of effect that would have on some readers.
“The enthusiasm oozing from your blog post is contagious. I have a story line that is brewing, too! Thanks for the encouragement here!”
Shucks, folks. I’m speechless. (“Oozing”? “Contagious”? Makes me feel like I require medical attention.)
It kind of reminded me of this post from 2 1/2 years ago.
Those that have been following this blog for a while know what a big proponent I am about networking and supporting those within your network.
I’ve been extremely fortunate to have not only established solid relationships with several writers of considerable talent, but been the fortunate recipient of their advice and guidance in helping me hone my writing skills. In turn, I don’t hesitate when one of them asks me for my two cents about their latest project.
Hard as this might be for some to believe, being nice to people actually has its benefits, and isn’t that difficult.
Or is it?
As has been well documented here, I’ve had several online encounters with those who make comments of an overly negative nature (which, a majority of the time, don’t include anything that actually helps).
It truly amazes me when somebody I’ve never met, and most likely never will meet, has no problem spitting out harsh and condescending answers to what are generally simple questions, or somebody just seeking some helpful insight or advice.
Whatever their reason, what exactly is the point of acting like this? If anything, it makes me want to avoid you at all costs. I’m already doing a bang-up job being full of self-doubt. I don’t need your help.
I strive to be the opposite of that, and help people out when I can. It’s in my nature.
And if you’re reading this, I sincerely hope it’s in yours as well.